The “Counter-Mindsets” of Powerful Leaders

One of my favorite descriptions of leadership is – “the ability to take a group somewhere they would never go on their own” (i.e. if the group can get there on their own…they don’t need you!). If you accept this description, one of the underlying implications is that leaders must be capable of creating movement in the opposite direction of the prevailing current.

While it’s much more common to think of this in terms of exceptional skills & capabilities (ex communication, organization, persuasiveness, etc.), I’d like to focus on the less discussed, but arguably more important aspect of specific “counter-mindsets” leaders must master to be truly powerful.

Consider the following list of examples:

  • HOPE in the face of DESPAIR Related image– “Yes we can…” vs “All hope is lost…”
  • VISION in the face of STATUS QUO – “A path forward…” vs “Another day…trying the same old thing…”
  • SERVICE in the face of STATUS – “I serve people & a greater cause…” vs “I’m the boss…look at me…”
  • CLARITY in the face of AMBIGUITY – “I don’t have all the answers, but here’s the next step we have to take…” vs “Everything keeps changing – I’m paralyzed…”
  • ENERGY/DRIVE in the face of COMPLACENCY – “Let’s move…create momentum…” vs “Let’s wait & see what happens…”
  • SIMPLICITY in the face of COMPLEXITY – “Here are basics that really count…” vs “We need to study all the options exhaustively…”
  • SECURITY in the face of VULNERABILITY – “Be confident, because it’s the right thing…” vs “I’m afraid of the consequences…”
  • POSITIVITY in the face of NEGATIVITY – “There’s light at the end of the tunnel…” vs “The light at the end of the tunnel is actually a train coming toward us…”
  • STABILITY in the face of CHAOS – “Tactics may change, but these principles don’t…” vs “Flavor of the day…I’m just reacting”

As you consider the list above, recognize that it’s not about leaders not experiencing the prevailing mindset…or even recognizing its reality. In fact they do…and many struggle tremendously with it. However, they’ve found a way to actively master it for themselves, and most importantly, exude/project the counter-mindset in a convincing way to their followers…and thus turn the tide and lead them to success.

So…how are you doing on mastering the “counter-mindsets”? How do you actively & daily master these mindset-paradoxes (a great subject for another article!)? Do you see the impact on your followers? Are there other counter-mindsets you think are important?

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Updated! (HOW to Become an “Activist” that Makes Change Happen)

Thanks to quite a bit of interest in my earlier blog-post on “how to become an organizational activist,” I’ve had the opportunity to exchange with others & reflect further on the topic.

I’d like to propose 3 more “P’s” that I believe help round-out the list – Platform, Protection, Partnership. While some were mentioned within the existing points, I felt they deserved a specific focus  (new points are 6,7,8 – blue font!). Incidentally, I believe the first 5 are more about “your mindset,” while the last 4 are more about “engaging others.”

What do you think?…does it resonate with your experience?…any other factors?

Here’s the updated version:

HOW to Become an “Activist” that Makes Change Happen

 

Active Waiting!

Image result for reflection in camera lensHave you ever been in a situation where you felt stuck…you’re in a “holding pattern” have to wait, put in your time, or simply don’t know what to do next? Of course we’ve all been in these situations…sometimes for extended periods of time. It’s part of life.

….the question is….how do you respond? There’s a wide range of emotions & attitudes that come with these seasons of life, but I’d like to propose a response I heard in a talk on the subject – it’s “active waiting.”

What does it mean? Of course it’s waiting, perseverance, and patience…but not “passive-patience” – not sitting on your hands, not waiting for the apple to fall. It’s “active patience”, aka “active waiting” – planting seeds, searching and preparing the ground for the next season, shaking trees with apples in them…even if you don’t know exactly where the apples might be.

Here are practical tips that’ll help you focus the LENS on an “active-waiting” perspective:

  1. L earn – educate yourself on options, read books, take courses, get certifications that could be valuable for the next steps
  2. E xperience – find ways to experiment on a small scale – weekend activity, volunteering, shadowing…anything to truly experience your options firsthand
  3. N etwork – seek out experts, mentors, associations, groups of like-minded individuals that can guide you, give feedback, share stories, provide contacts & leads
  4. S tart – look for connecting points in your current work that give you an “excuse” to start from where you are…even if it’s a stretch. Keep in mind that an organic “bridge” to something new is typically better than an abrupt jump off of a cliff. (Example – if you’re thinking about being an author, volunteer to write for the department newsletter…keep doing it…people may notice…see what happens)

So what are you waiting for? Focus your lens. Begin the process of active waiting today…it’ll definitely increase your chances of moving forward.

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